Are you a loser?
If you don’t succeed, it’s not because you are a loser. It is because you haven’t found who you really are, YET.
What do you want to experience in life? How do you want to feel? Maybe you started this job because you thought that you would enjoy it and you realize now that it makes you anxious, unhappy, and that you hate doing it!
You’re going to tell me “it’s easy to say”.
Yes it is.
But someone has to say it, if you can’t say it to yourself…
Maybe you think that it’s impossible. Or that’s it’s going to be hard. Very rarely are you going to think it’s easy… otherwise you would have done it already.
Even if it’s going to be hard, is it going to be worth it?
How do you want to feel 5 years from now? 10 years from now? 20 years from now?
For some of you, you might consider that in 20 years you will not be here anymore anyway. That’s it’s too late to try. Yes, it may be a little on the late side. So what? What do you have to lose?
We are all going to lose everything anyway. The only thing at the end of our life is going to be either the satisfaction or the regrets.
But we don’t want to think about that, because it seems so far. It seems for most of us that it will never happen anyway right?
And before the end, in all those years between now and then, how do you want to feel?
Make a list.
This is going to be the start of your new life, now.
And you are the one who is going to create it.
Not your parents. Not your friend. Not your boss. Not your spouse.
Because I believe that you have it all. That when you were born, you had an intention to do something in this world, to be something and I believe that you still have it all, because this is something that you cannot lose. That is why you will never be a loser. Because you can never lose what you really are. You can only lose after being other people, doing like other people, having things that were created by other people’s dreams and not your own dreams.
You are not a loser. You are a winner. You can win it all. As long as you play your own game.